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3 Reflections From The We All Grow Summit

Although I was posting fun pictures all over my social media channels, I was in attendance at the We All Grow Summit this weekend to improve my blog/brand and make new connections.



I prepared for the weekend with a list of needs. I researched the agenda, the speakers/bloggers and pinpointed what I wanted to extract from workshop sessions. Call me an over planner but I wanted to make the most out of this opportunity!

I narrowed down my reflections from the conference and realized these are NOT exclusive to just media influencers, bloggers or social media pros.


  1. Media can be TOO powerfulRosie Rivera provided a powerful testimony about her family losses, personal battles and her book, Mis Pedazos Rotos, detailing how she is healing from the wounds of childhood abuse. Rosie admitted to a room full of bloggers and media influencers that she hates media because it’s keeping us uneducated. She believes that our voice can be used in a more influential manner.  Reflection: Serve a purpose with every post, picture and retweet. Educate and help someone. You don’t have to be a blogger or professional to be an “influencer.” Bullies are influencers too but look at the damage they cause. Change the conversation.
  2. Our Power Is In Our VoiceThe world doesn’t know that it needs you. Click To Tweet What can you provide to build someone up? Is there a story you want to share? Be more real. As Rosie Rivera stated, “When you are YOU the audience will come.” Reflection: If ideas keep floating in your head, put them on paper. State them out loud. Write them in your journal. During this conference I stated my future intention to a new friend. Ironically, she had the same thought. We shook hands and agreed to meet each other in that future place. Now we just allow the Universe to work its magic!
  3. Evaluate The Energy Around You – Two of my biggest highlights were the Wellness Circles I attended both days of the conference. On the 1st day I was blessed to have personalized attention with Elayna Fernandez of The Positive Mom. She helped me solidify my passions so they could be timeless and more specific. The 2nd day I shared my visions with Hiliana Devila and Christine Gutierrez. They honored, challenged and comforted our group to move forward on whatever was holding us back. Reflection: Step back and look at how you are operating. If you are a blogger or entrepreneur, how is your audience viewing you? What are they seeing on your timelines, website, email signature, video content, etc.? What energy are we bringing? If you are busy with family life, step back and re-evaluate your routine. How often are you speaking comforting words to your children or loved ones? Are your words full of criticism or rushed? What do your children see when they see you everyday? What does your boss see when you walk in everyday? The energy you bring into a room, your house or your office could help explain why love or opportunities are not opening up for you. Christine recommended for bloggers/vloggers to take a social media break to give their brands a fresh eye. Unconsciously we end up repeating patterns that we see. We take the same Instagram picture or create the same type of video. I have mentioned this in previous posts relating to toxic energy. What news or conversations are we hearing? How is this being reflected on our thoughts or conversations?

I could probably write a book on all the lessons I learned through these last few days. One thing that I do know is that the title of this conference truly reflects how I feel: We All Grow. Thank you for helping me grow Latina Bloggers Connect!

If you attended the conference this weekend what takeaways did you have? 

What energy will you bring to this week?

Latina Bloggers To Watch!

In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month and Mexican Independence Day I wanted to highlight some of my favorite Latina bloggers. I wish I could include all my favorites but here are a few who I follow regularly!

The first blogger I always keep an eye on is Mommy Mafia. She is a Miami and Southern Florida lifestyle parenting blogger. She is a go-to resource for kid-centric activities and connects moms to community events and workshops. According to Mommy Mafia, “mommies need a time-out too.” She shares personal ups-and-downs of parenthood and shares comical posts and articles on her Facebook page! Her site is


Xenia is a friend of mine I met on Twitter who is a family/multi-cultural/lifestyle blogger. She identifies as multi-cultural/mestiza and has been featured on Latina Bloggers Connect. Xenia shares adventures with her family in Southern California, whether they’re travelling or enjoying amazing food. You can find her at and on most social media sites. You can usually find us cracking jokes on Twitter late at night too!


Elizabeth is a Mexican blogger that I met on Instagram and Twitter. She is also a freelance makeup artist and beauty blogger who shares gorgeous pics and tips on how to get glammed up! She isn’t afraid to show the best and worst of product reviews. I look forward to seeing her recent hauls and the tests of new nail and lip colors! Elizabeth’s blog is

Hope you enjoyed this post! Visit these beautiful ladies on their sites and be sure to visit me on BeVisible.Soy, a Latina social networking site!  

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